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Mind Technique's By
Phillip Skinner
This technique I'm going to explain in this article may be considered pretty
radical by some. But before you decide or make a judgment that I could be simple
or simply out of My Own Mind, please stay with me for a moment.
Sport Psychology has become extremely important in the sporting world. But don't
be misled into thinking that this is only something that's of interest to sports
men and women. There are many aspects to sport psychology, and I believe some
can assist even the humble online entrepreneur to achieve massive success. The
most useful I've found is the idea of 'visualization'.
The human brain is a complex organ that's capable of many tremendous feats, but
it can also be fooled. In particular, the brain can't tell the difference
between reality and something that's vividly imagined. To demonstrate what I
mean, try the following simple experiment for yourself:
Close your eyes and imagine you're holding a large juicy ripe orange. Now
imagine yourself starting to peel that orange. Imagine the thin spray of juice
from the peel as you insert a thumbnail. Imagine the sharp fresh aroma of orange
that fills the air as you pull sections of peel from the soft juicy flesh. Now
imagine the sticky juice running down your fingers as you pull away one of the
moist orange segments, and the sharp sweet taste exploding on your tongue as you
take your first bite.
If you've been able to vividly imagine these things taking place, then you'll
almost certainly find yourself *Salivating Wildly* I know I am, and that's just
by writing this passage!
Your brain's reaction has been no different than if you'd actually peeled that
orange. It's been unable to distinguish this as just your imagination, and has
reacted by sending a signal to your saliva glands to expect something delicious.
Now this example may have nothing to do with your business, but it ably
demonstrates my point.
So how we can use this phenomenon to help ourselves and others?
Choose a particular skill or area where you wish to improve, or simply choose
one of your goals. You do have goals don't you? Spend at least 5 minutes
everyday relaxing in a quiet place, visualizing yourself completing your task or
goal. That's all it takes, but you must do it regularly.
One of the reasons why this technique is so successful is that you'll normally
always imagine yourself being successful in whatever you choose to think about.
I mean, why you would want To imagine yourself failing or doing something badly?
Doing things correctly time after time is a necessity in any learning process
and is a tremendous confidence builder.
When you come to perform your chosen task in reality, your subconscious mind
will be expecting you to perform it perfectly as you have many times before in
your imagination. You'll automatically have the confidence of an expert.
An added bonus is that while you’re imagining your new found successes, you'll
also be building a strong positive mental attitude. It's an inescapable fact
that you become what you think about. So, if you think you're going to fail all
the time, you will.
You may think this idea sounds totally foolish, but don't dismiss it out of
hand. With a little creative thought you can employ this technique to improve
your performance in many business skills and help you achieve your goals. You do
have goals don't you?
I'm not suggesting that visualization can replace traditional practice and
experience. However, when used in conjunction with it, you can rapidly
accelerate your progress and success. I've used this technique myself and am
convinced it makes a difference (even in the thirst dept). It could seriously
make you a fortune. Go on, have some fun and give it a try!
-:To-Be successful:- (The secret of success is consistency of purpose)
Staying
Connected To Positive Attitude I consider
myself a very fortunate human being. I have a wonderful life that is surrounded
by a group of loving, supportive family and friends. Some, who are reading this
newsletter at this very moment. Along with all the joy I am exposed to everyday,
I find myself being given opportunities to practice what I teach even when it
feels impossible. One of the areas I coach people with is helping them
manage their energy. In other words, helping them stay connected to the emotions
that allow them to feel good, no matter what is being thrown at them from
outside circumstances. Is this easy to do? Sometimes and at other times it seems
downright impossible. Recently, I was given the gift of being in the place that
felt downright impossible.
When You Think You Can
How many times have you heard yourself say I can't, only
to find that you really can and you did? It seems whenever we are faced with
something that feels like it's beyond our ability we automatically go into the
'I can't do it' syndrome before we even consider the possibility that we really
can. Too often we give up on ourselves before we even start having less faith in
ourselves than others have in us or we have in others.
How To
Be Confident At Any Age I remember when I was in my early
twenties, heck, it was only a few birthdays ago (I'm 26 now). Flashback about
five years and I was a fresh out of university nobody with a degree in business
management that I just scraped a GPA 4 in (this is equivalent to a pass in
Australia, university grades are 1-7, 4 being a pass, 7 being the best). I spent
most of my university days lost. Half the time doing what I needed to get
through my degree, the other half of the time indulging in whatever hobby took
my interest. Throw in some tennis, a handful of casual jobs and lots and lots of
glossy-eyed staring at the beautiful girls on campus and you had my life at
university.
Still Not Quite
Getting It Right “A man cannot be
comfortable without his own approval.” (Mark Twain) “A man should
not strive to eliminate his complexes, but to get into accord with them, for
they are legitimately what directs his conduct in the world.” (Sigmund Freud)
As is our confidence, so is our capacity.” (William Hazlitt) “Be yourself
and think for yourself; and while your conclusions may not be infallible, they
will be nearer right than the conclusions forced upon you.” (Elbert Hubbard)
You are all you really have for sure.
Positive Laughter
How many times a day do you find yourself having a good laugh? One, five, ten,
thirty times a day? Chances are you don’t have a clue. But now that I’ve posed
the question just think about it for a moment and take a guess. I’ve always felt
like I’m someone who laughs a lot until I read an article about laughter. It
made me think twice and absolutely raised my awareness around my laugh-o-meter!
Positive-Attitude
Recently I was sitting on my living room couch reading, when the howling of the
wind and the pelting rain caught my attention. It was quite apparent that the
wind and rain were doing their best to make their mark on this day. Although
weather like this could have brought on a feeling of gloominess, I found myself
filled with a great sense of peace, warmth and oneness with everything around
me.
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